Why not everyone needs to like you

You have your own unique personality which means some people will love and adore you, while others may not. Surely you don’t like every person you meet? Likewise, every person you meet may not like you. The good news is, everyone doesn’t have to like you.

Certain persons simply will not like you not matter what you do and no matter how likable you think you are, you’re not going to win over every person you meet

Before you freak out, keep in mind that it’s not just normal to be occasionally disliked, but in fact, it’s healthy. Rejection is a way to suss out who’s compatible with whom, and just as getting romantically dumped by someone leaves you open to finding a better suited partner, getting axed from a social group gives you space to find folks that are a little more your speed. Plus, it’s empowering not to fear being disliked.

One of the most liberating things you can learn in life is that we do not have to like everyone and not everyone has to like us.

Are you one of those people who needs acceptance from others? Don’t waste your precious time and gifts convincing people of your worth, they will never want what you can give.

Of course, this is not always easy. It can be deep in your psyche, thinking about what others think of you and how their opinions should come before your own. It doesn’t have to be that way. The more time you spend on yourself, the more you will see your type of people will come to you. It may not happen overnight, but that is no reason to give up.

The world will always be full of people, no matter what you do, they will never like you. But then the world is also full of people who will love you very much!

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